How to use a two-person sex toy effectively

How to use a two-person sex toy effectively

With these small pieces of equipment, you can ride the pleasure train. When it comes to utilising a sex toy with your spouse, it might be pretty intimidating at first. Instead of seeing sex toys as a foreign thing, I advise you to think of them as an extension of yourself (figuratively…or perhaps physically).

Good sex toys are made to enhance the experience and bring you and your partner closer together via heightened pleasure. The sky is the limit when it comes to sex toys made for partnered sex, which range from double-ended dildos and strap-ons to remote-controlled vibes and pleasure wands.

If you’re new to utilising sex toys with a partner, I recommend going with something adaptable like Frenchie’s Double Entendre, which can be used for both genders and can be used for internal and external stimulation, double penetration, blended orgasms, and more. 

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An all-in-one pleasure tool is sure to encourage plenty of exploration, allowing you to discover erogenous zones you weren’t even aware of. It is understand that introducing sex toys into your partnered sex life might be awkward, but it doesn’t have to be. I always recommend having a clear, open dialogue with your spouse about your wish to use sex toys first, as talking about sex is the best way to have better sex. To find a good sex toys in Malaysia, visit this link   

So be open about wanting to explore even more pleasure and to try something different. Once you’ve had the initial conversation, you can get to the fun part of choosing what kind of pleasure tool you’d like to try together. I always suggest considering what types of positions or styles of stimulation bring you the most pleasure, and then consider how a sex toy could enhance that experience.

When it gets time for the extra fun part, I have a few suggestions to help the experience be as smooth sailing as possible. Firstly, ensure you’ve already taken your new pleasure tool out of any packaging and given it a good wash with a gentle soap or toy cleaner beforehand. 

From there, it’s always best to have it within reach, so you don’t have to get up and rummage through the closet, potentially spoiling the mood. Depending what type of pleasure tool you’re using and where, I’d always suggest going acoustic for a while before you reach for it. For any type of penetration, we tend to need roughly 20-40 minutes of arousal beforehand. So give yourself time to be ready.

Always have a good quality water-based lube (like the Frenchie Oh La La Love Lube) on hand to help increase pleasure and reduce any friction. As a side note – water-based lubricant is the best option for use with all sex toys. Avoid oil or silicone based lubes as they don’t play well with silicone sex toys.